Medicine Man - DivX Version (Normal Quality), iPod/iPhone Version
Posted by eugenejensen1981 on November 21, 2009
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IMDB rating: 5.60 Plot: An eccentric scientist working for a large drug company is working on a research project in the Amazon jungle. He sends for a research assistant and a gas chromatograph because he’s close to a cure for cancer. When the assistant turns out to be a “mere woman,” he rejects her help. Meanwhile the bulldozers get closer to the area in which they are conducting research, and they eventually learn to work together, and begin falling in love. |
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Actors: Connery Sean,Wilker Jose,De Alexandre Rodolfo,Tsere Rereme Francisco Tsiren,Da Silva Elias Monteiro,Dos Santos Kaiapo Bec-Kana-Re,Moreira Angelo Barra,Lavat Jose,Adventure,Romance,
How do I get my husband to realize that his gross behavior is making me less attracted to him?
I understand and appreciate that he’s comfortable around me, but it makes me feel very uncomfortable!
He has no problems showing me his crap either in person or pictures. He scratches his balls or @ss, smells his fingers (sometimes puts them in my face) then touches my computer or remote, etc. Picks his nose for 10 minutes, then after he gets up you can see his boogers all over the couch or bed sheets. Same with his toe nails (ewww toe jam). He farts in my face and sometimes gives me the "Dutch Oven" in bed. He sometimes squats over my face buck naked, or gives me a "Yokozuma." 90% of the time while at home he’s naked, which isn’t bad at all, I just think that some things should be left for the bedroom. I feel embarrassed to share these things but I want to get my point across.
Like I said, I know that he’s just comfortable around me, but I have expressed to him repeatedly that it in fact really irritates me and grosses me out. He said that he’d try to stop, but he hasn’t done anything to stop himself. Even when I notice it and remind him. He just gets in a defensive mode saying that I am "nagging" him or to "get off his back."
I don’t do these things around him, in fear that if he saw how nasty it is he’d become less attracted to me. And I don’t know why he thinks it’s acceptable in the first place. It’s not like he’s not around men his age to share the hilarity with all day. I am not sure completely if it’s the nasty things he does to/around me that grosses me out, or the lack of respect he gives me when I ask him to stop ,or at least be more conscious about it. Needless to say I am losing my attraction to him, and even though I have told him how I feel, it doesn’t seem to make a difference. I’m tired of being treated like a room mate in a frat house or a bunk mate in a prison cell. What’s next… a rusty hook?
Maybe I need to give him a taste of his own medicine and talk about my period all the time and leave tampons in the toilet for him to see.
Any ideas??
I’d also like to add that outside of this, he’s normally a very mature, responsible and stern person. I also want to say that I am not a prude, and used to be able to have a good laugh about this kind of stuff, but it’s just gotten rediculous.
Your husband is epic win. I’d like to buy him a beer.
INTERNET HATE MACHINE CIX | Nov 19, 2009
You knew he was immature before you married him.
Big J v 3 | Nov 19, 2009
I would definitely DIVORCE him! I’m serious!
Rainy Nights | Nov 19, 2009
He wants a divorce..he is just pushing you to dive in first so its not his fault.
jayjay | Nov 19, 2009
divorce him
Dave87gn | Nov 19, 2009
Sounds like he’s 10 years old. If he is going to act immature treat him that way
warrior | Nov 19, 2009
just tell the truth, tell him its getting on your nerves and that you are becoming less attractive to him
baby hands | Nov 19, 2009
OMG ! thats just 100% gross
merget | Nov 19, 2009
your husband takes pics of his crap that’s a little weird all in its own
cavie | Nov 19, 2009
i had to stop reading, your question was making me…..gag. seems like you have no problemo with grossing people out.
jaded | Nov 19, 2009
Quite simple. Stop sleeping with him. Make him realise just how unattractive his behaviour is by demonstrating how unattractive you find him.
Also invest in some anti-bacterial hand gel and wipes to keep with you.
i_ate_sponge_bob | Nov 19, 2009
Oh when my husband got to this fart on me, burp in my face stage… oh boy did I have fun with that. The biggest gross thing for him is used tampons so what did I do… left one floating in the toilet! I could hear the man scream from the kitchen! Lets just say he was less excited about messing with me after that. Men don’t get that to us it might be gross, their man friends don’t mind because they are men too!
~~~Notorious V.I.C.~~~ | Nov 19, 2009
Men are not mind readers so you have to tell him straight up. Don’t be too forward, but be firm with telling him the main things that disgust you. He probably has little to no idea that what he’s doing in repulsive. If you don’t say any thing he is not going to stop. Period.
KimAtronz | Nov 19, 2009
Tell him, point blank, that his behavior is offensive and you’re losing you’re attraction for him. If he says, "Get off my back" again, reply with, "How much do you value sex in this marriage? Because I can no longer force myself to be attracted to someone with such repulsive behavior. If sex doesn’t matter to you, I’ll move out so you can get a male roommate who doesn’t mind your immature and disgusting habits."
Libby | Nov 19, 2009
OMG my husband does a few of the same things. Mostly he burps and farts a lot. I do it right back at him but he has not stopped. He is 39! When I married him, I figured since he’s 8 years older I would get someone nice and mature - not the case at all! So I can definitely relate to what you’re saying. I’m not sure there’s an answer to this - I’ve asked my husband to stop and he says he can’t.
Madeline | Nov 19, 2009
Please refrain from writing questions like this in the future. I actually started busting out laughing as soon as I hit "Yokozuma"
Q&A King… take 2 | Nov 19, 2009
That